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338 – Trying Again: Anxiety & Stress during Pregnancy After Loss

Erica Michelle

Below are some coping tips that worked for me on how to Handle the Anxiety, Fear and Stress that comes with Pregnancy After Loss.

Focus on one day at a time. Easier said than done, right?  But I always keep my favorite verse with me that  “All things work together for the good of those who are called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28 If God has called you to be a mother especially for you to have another child it will happen, it is his purpose for your life.  I learned to take my pregnancy one day at a time because I celebrated what was good, different, and better about my new pregnancy.  I paid attention to what’s going well each day and how I was feeling and how the baby was moving and healthy.  Remember each pregnancy is different, and the fact that you miscarried, had an infant loss or stillbirth does not mean this pregnancy will end that way.  

Don’t always expect to be happy and joyful all the time – We all have good and bad days when we are not pregnant so don’t expect it to be joyful and happy all the time.  Remind yourself that being pregnant again can be a scary experience.  

Pray 

Journal 

Celebrate Milestones

Take Care of Yourself 

Seek a Therapist, Coach, or Grief Counselor 

342 – State of Black Maternal Health – REWIND Sisters in Loss Podcast: Miscarriage, Pregnancy Loss, & Infertility Stories

April is Sisters in Loss Infertility Awareness Month!  All month long we will be highlighting infertility stories and journey’s.   Black Maternal Health week was April 11-17 and Infertility Awareness Week is April 18-24.  This week we are talking about reproductive health. Did you know that some midwives specialize in high risk births and pregnancy after loss or infertility?  Today’s guest is a Certified Nurse Midwife and founder of Sakina Health who partners with birthing families to inspire them to become savvy birthers.  After spending nearly two decades as a midwife with nearly 1000 births in the hospital, birth center, and home, Takiya Ballard knows what it truly means to offer a unique type of healthcare that is unbiased and respectful in every way.  In this episode we deep dive into the State of Black Maternal Health, we discuss the differences between midwifery and doulas, her podcast The Savvy Black Birther, and creating the right birth team for us as black women. This episode is for you to listen to if you want to learn how to create the right birth team for you, the differences of midwifery and doulas, and how you can take control of your reproductive health. Become a Sisters in Loss Birth Bereavement, and Postpartum Doula Here Living Water Doula Services Book Recommendations and Links Below You can shop my Amazon Store for the Book Recommendations You can follow Sisters in Loss on Social Join our Black Moms in Loss Online Weekly Grief Support Group Join the Sisters in Loss Online Community Sisters in Loss TV Youtube Channel Sisters in Loss Instagram Sisters in Loss Facebook Sisters in Loss Twitter You can follow Erica on Social Erica’s Website Erica’s Instagram Erica’s Facebook Erica’s Twitter
  1. 342 – State of Black Maternal Health – REWIND
  2. 341 – Black Birth Stories with Shayla Brown
  3. 340 – Pregnancy After Loss – Stillbirth and Malia's Present with Helena Morais
  4. 339 – Parenting After Loss – Honoring my Angel Baby and Earthly Baby with Nkemka Egbuho
  5. 338 – Trying Again: Anxiety & Stress during Pregnancy After Loss

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