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338 – Trying Again: Anxiety & Stress during Pregnancy After Loss

Erica Michelle

Below are some coping tips that worked for me on how to Handle the Anxiety, Fear and Stress that comes with Pregnancy After Loss.

Focus on one day at a time. Easier said than done, right?  But I always keep my favorite verse with me that  “All things work together for the good of those who are called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28 If God has called you to be a mother especially for you to have another child it will happen, it is his purpose for your life.  I learned to take my pregnancy one day at a time because I celebrated what was good, different, and better about my new pregnancy.  I paid attention to what’s going well each day and how I was feeling and how the baby was moving and healthy.  Remember each pregnancy is different, and the fact that you miscarried, had an infant loss or stillbirth does not mean this pregnancy will end that way.  

Don’t always expect to be happy and joyful all the time – We all have good and bad days when we are not pregnant so don’t expect it to be joyful and happy all the time.  Remind yourself that being pregnant again can be a scary experience.  

Pray 

Journal 

Celebrate Milestones

Take Care of Yourself 

Seek a Therapist, Coach, or Grief Counselor 

343 – Bereaved Mother's Day – Honoring our Angels Sisters in Loss Podcast: Miscarriage, Pregnancy Loss, & Infertility Stories

International Bereaved Mother’s Day is this upcoming Sunday, May 5, 2024.  This day is for us to show our love for our babies gone to heaven far too soon. Sunday, May 12, 2024 in the US we celebrate Mother’s Day. Mother’s Day can be very challenging, difficult emotionally, and with social distancing and quarantine can and will be very lonely for many Sisters in Loss. Today’s episode is my love letter to you letting you know that You are a Mother! All of the needle pokes, disappointing news, positive and negative pregnancy tests, exciting feelings of baby movement, to holding your baby in your arms after they have taken their last breath made you a mother. Don’t let anyone make you feel different on Mother’s Day. On Sunday, do what you need to do.  Watch church online, make you a bomb brunch with mimosas, cry hard, stay home, and facetime or houseparty with family and friends will make the day better.  Do it all.  Sunday is your Mother’s Day.  You are amazing!  You are brave!  You are beautiful!  You are loved!  You are blessed!  You are a Mom.  Happy Mother’s Day Sister in Loss! Become a Sisters in Loss Birth Bereavement, and Postpartum Doula Here Living Water Doula Services Book Recommendations and Links Below You can shop my Amazon Store for the Book Recommendations You can follow Sisters in Loss on Social Join our Black Moms in Loss Online Weekly Grief Support Group Join the Sisters in Loss Online Community Sisters in Loss TV Youtube Channel Sisters in Loss Instagram Sisters in Loss Facebook Sisters in Loss Twitter You can follow Erica on Social Erica’s Website Erica’s Instagram Erica’s Facebook Erica’s Twitter
  1. 343 – Bereaved Mother's Day – Honoring our Angels
  2. 342 – State of Black Maternal Health – REWIND
  3. 341 – Black Birth Stories with Shayla Brown
  4. 340 – Pregnancy After Loss – Stillbirth and Malia's Present with Helena Morais
  5. 339 – Parenting After Loss – Honoring my Angel Baby and Earthly Baby with Nkemka Egbuho

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